Job seekers who are also parents often face unspoken bias during the hiring process. Whether it’s the subtle narrowing of opportunity, an offhand comment in an interview, or being passed over in favor of someone assumed to have fewer responsibilities, working parents frequently experience discrimination that’s difficult to prove but deeply felt.
While some forms of bias are explicitly illegal under California law, others exist in gray areas that still allow employers to unfairly sideline caregivers. Below, we break down whether employers can legally refuse to hire someone because they have kids, what the law says, and how applicants can fight back.
The Legal Landscape: Is It Illegal to Discriminate Against Parents?
Under federal law, there is no specific statute that prohibits discrimination based purely on parental status. Title VII of the Civil Rights Act bars discrimination based on sex, race, religion, and national origin, but it does not directly name “parent” or “caregiver” as a protected class. However, if a parent experiences discrimination that overlaps with one of the protected categories, such as being treated unfairly because of gendered assumptions about parenting, it may still be actionable.
The legal theory known as Family Responsibilities Discrimination (FRD) has gained traction over the past two decades. FRD occurs when an employer makes hiring, firing, or promotion decisions based on assumptions about a person’s caregiving duties. Although not always directly codified, courts have increasingly found that certain acts of parental discrimination may violate existing employment laws, particularly when they intersect with gender stereotypes.
California Law Offers Stronger Protections
California law goes further than federal law in many areas of employee rights, and this includes protections for working parents. The Fair Employment and Housing Act (FEHA) prohibits discrimination based on sex, gender, marital status, and other protected characteristics. Because parental discrimination often stems from gender-based assumptions (like the belief that mothers are less committed to their jobs), an employer’s decision to reject a candidate because of caregiving duties can violate FEHA.
For example, refusing to hire a qualified woman because she “might be distracted by her kids” or “seems like she’ll need a lot of time off” can amount to illegal sex discrimination. Similarly, discriminating against a father for requesting flexible hours or paternity leave can also violate FEHA if rooted in gender stereotypes.
While California does not yet list “parental status” as a standalone protected class, plaintiffs can and do bring successful claims under FEHA by demonstrating that the discrimination they faced was based on a protected characteristic related to caregiving.
Common Scenarios of Parental Discrimination in Hiring
Many acts of parental discrimination go unspoken or are masked behind seemingly neutral language. But the signs are often clear to those who experience them. Examples include:
- Illegal Interview Questions: These include questions such as “Do you have kids?” or “How do you manage child care?” These questions are not just inappropriate: they are often illegal because they can be used to unfairly screen out parents.
- Assumptions About Time Commitment: This looks like questioning whether a parent would be able to work late or attend business travel, based on their family situation.
- Bias Against Single Parents: They may be seen as having fewer resources or being less reliable.
- Discrimination Against Fathers: Employers may penalize men who don’t conform to outdated gender norms.
- Penalizing Parents of Children With Disabilities: This may implicate protections under the Americans with Disabilities Act if the employer is discriminating due to the association with someone with a disability.
These scenarios demonstrate how “neutral” hiring decisions may, in practice, be deeply biased against those with family responsibilities.
When Parental Discrimination Crosses Into Other Legal Violations
Because parental status is often connected to other legally protected characteristics, discrimination claims are often brought under broader theories. For example:
- Gender Discrimination: Stereotyping mothers as less committed or available violates Title VII and FEHA. Courts have held that treating men and women differently based on assumptions about caregiving is illegal.
- Marital Status Discrimination: In California, it is illegal to treat someone differently because they are single, married, divorced, or widowed. Employers who refuse to hire single parents may run afoul of this protection.
- Disability Association Claims: The ADA prohibits discrimination against someone because of their relationship with a person with a disability. This includes rejecting candidates who have children with special needs.
- Retaliation: If a job applicant asserts rights protected by law, such as asking about leave policies or filing a complaint, and is rejected as a result, that may constitute unlawful retaliation.
These overlapping claims strengthen the legal options available to job applicants who suspect they’ve been discriminated against.
What to Do If You Suspect Bias Because You’re a Parent
If you believe you were unfairly rejected from a job opportunity because of your status as a parent, you should begin by documenting everything. Red flags can include:
- Interviewers asking personal or family-related questions
- Comments implying you would not be able to commit fully to the job
- Sudden change in tone after revealing your family situation
- Job postings with language that excludes or discourages caregivers
Keep records of your interactions with the employer, including emails, call notes, and details about the interview. If the employer gave you feedback on why you were not hired, keep that as well. Any inconsistencies or vague explanations may support your claim.
If you’re unsure whether your experience rises to the level of illegal discrimination, consult an employment attorney as early as possible. A lawyer can help you assess your options, preserve your rights, and navigate the complaint process if necessary.
How to File a Complaint
In California, you may file a complaint with the Civil Rights Department (CRD) (formerly the Department of Fair Employment and Housing) or the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). The agencies have a work-sharing agreement, so filing with one often satisfies the requirement for both.
You typically have three years to file a complaint with the CRD and 300 days to file with the EEOC from the date of the discriminatory act. Your attorney can help you determine the best forum for your case.
Strong evidence for your complaint may include:
- Records of discriminatory comments
- Notes from the interview or job application process
- Comparison with how non-parent applicants were treated
- Any company policies or communications that suggest bias
If your claim is successful, you may be entitled to compensation for lost wages, emotional distress damages, attorney’s fees, and possibly injunctive relief, such as changes to the employer’s hiring practices.
Preventing Parental Discrimination in the Workplace
Employers can avoid liability and foster an inclusive work environment by training their hiring managers to:
- Avoid personal questions about children or caregiving
- Focus on job qualifications and performance expectations only
- Use neutral language in job postings
- Create family-friendly policies that are applied fairly to all employees
- Understand that parental status discrimination often overlaps with illegal forms of bias
Proactive compliance is not just about avoiding lawsuits; it’s about building a workplace where talented candidates aren’t excluded simply because they also happen to be parents.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can employers ask if I have children during an interview?
No. While the question may seem innocent, it can be used to screen out parents. In California, this is considered inappropriate and potentially discriminatory.
What if I was the most qualified candidate but didn’t get the job?
If you have evidence that your parental status played a role in the decision, you may have a case. Document what happened and consult a lawyer.
Is bias against fathers illegal, too?
Yes. Discriminating against fathers for taking on caregiving roles may violate gender discrimination laws.
Can I sue even if I never got an offer?
Yes. The law protects job applicants as well as employees. Refusal to hire based on discrimination is just as illegal as firing someone for discriminatory reasons.
How long do I have to file a claim?
In California, you have up to three years to file with the CRD and 300 days with the EEOC, but it’s best to act as soon as possible.
You Don’t Have to Accept Discrimination
No one should be denied a job because they have children. While the law is still evolving, California offers robust protections for job applicants facing discrimination due to family responsibilities discrimination. If you believe an employer rejected you based on your parental status, don’t stay silent. You may have legal options.At Le Clerc & Le Clerc, LLP, we are committed to fighting workplace discrimination in all its forms. Contact us today for a free consultation to discuss your rights and next steps.